Today, you and I are going to take a closer look at something that's easy to overlook - but it could be the very reason why so many good men keep losing their edge in dating and relationships, often without realizing it. You've probably seen this play out before. A man pours all his energy into a woman. He texts her daily, always checks in, plans thoughtful dates, makes sure she knows he’s serious. He’s doing everything “right” - on paper. But somehow, it backfires. She grows distant. At first polite, then vague… then gone. And here's the thing: it’s not because he’s not good enough. It’s because he’s focusing on the wrong thing . When a man doesn’t have a clear direction in life - when he doesn’t know what he’s building, where he’s going, or who he’s becoming - he naturally starts pouring all that restless energy into someone else. Often, that “someone else” is her. And while she might appreciate the attention at first, she’ll eventually feel something she can’t quite...